5 Things Brides Wish They Knew Before Their Wedding Day (From a Photographer’s Perspective)

by Angie Scott Photography

Gorgeous wedding at Venue 1908 in Sanford, Florida

Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting seasons of life 💍 but it can also feel overwhelming with all the moving pieces. As an Orlando wedding photographer, I’ve had the joy of walking alongside so many wonderful couples on their best day ever 🤍. Over time, I’ve picked up a few pieces of wisdom that I wish every bride could know before stepping into her wedding day.

If you're in the middle of planning, here are five gentle reminders, plus a few sweet bonus tips, to help you feel peaceful, present, and full of joy when your big day finally arrives ✨.

1. Build in More Time Than You Think You'll Need ⏰

Things like hair and makeup, getting into your dress, and greeting your loved ones often take longer than expected. And that’s okay. Giving yourself a little extra breathing room, even just fifteen to thirty minutes, means you won’t feel rushed or stressed. It also gives you space to be fully present in those sweet, quiet moments that often end up being some of the most meaningful parts of the day 💛.

2. Don’t Sweat the Tiny Details 🌸

You’ve spent so much time planning every little piece of your wedding, but the truth is that tiny things might not go exactly as you imagined. And honestly, that’s part of the beauty. The flowers, the place settings, the timeline... they matter, but they’re not the heart of the day. What you’ll remember most is the love you felt and the people who surrounded you. Some of the most joyful, heartfelt moments happen in the beautiful imperfections ✨.

3. Do a First Look (or a First Touch) If You’re Feeling Nervous 👀🤍

If you're feeling a little anxious leading up to the ceremony, a First Look, or even just a First Touch behind a door, can be such a grounding moment. It’s not just a trend. It’s a chance to breathe, connect, laugh, pray, and soak in all the love and excitement together before the whirlwind of the day really begins. It’s one of my favorite things to capture, and I promise it will settle your heart in the sweetest way. PLUS! This will also allow extra time to spend together as a couple, no more sneaking around trying not to see each other. Some of my most favorite photos taken are the ones right after a first look.

The first look between Bree and Alec was heartfelt and beautiful.

4. Be Fully Present with Your People 🫶

While beautiful portraits are important, the photos you’ll treasure most often come from simply living your day, not posing for it. Laugh with your friends. Hug your parents. Dance with your new husband or wife.The best memories, and the most beautiful photos, come from being completely present with the people you love most 🥹. You don’t have to chase the perfect shot. Just enjoy every second, and trust that the magic will be captured naturally.

5. Remember: The Day is About Your Marriage, Not Just the Wedding 💒

At the end of the day, the florals will wilt, the cake will be eaten, and the dress will be carefully tucked away. But your covenant, the sacred promise you’re making to each other, that is what will last 🤍. Hold tight to each other. Laugh. Cry. Dance. Celebrate. Have fun with no worries because you're photographer will be capturing the memories for you!! Your story is just beginning, and it’s already so, so beautiful ✨.

It's so important to make time for the ones you love most on your wedding day! Especially your grandparents! ♡ ︎

Bonus Tips You Might Not Have Thought About ✨

Bonus Tip 1: Bring Comfy Shoes for the Reception 👟💃

Your wedding shoes will be gorgeous - but after hours of dancing, standing, and celebrating, your feet might be begging for a break. Pack a cute pair of flats, sandals, or even sneakers to slip into after the formal photos are done. No one will see them under your dress, and you’ll be so thankful you can dance the night away without any pain!

Bonus Tip 2: Have a "Just in Case" Bag Ready 🎒✨

A small bag with a few essentials can save the day. Think things like stain remover, double-sided tape, pain reliever, tissues, mints, and a little sewing kit. You probably won’t need most of it, but having it nearby can give you total peace of mind - and make you feel like a wedding-day superhero if you or someone else needs a quick fix!

Bonus Tip 3: Take a Quiet Moment to Pray Before You Walk Down the Aisle 🙏🏼🤍

Before you step into one of the most beautiful moments of your life, take a minute - just you (or with someone special) - to breathe deeply and pray. It doesn’t have to be long or fancy. Just a simple prayer of gratitude, surrender, and joy can calm your heart and center you on the real reason you’re there: to step into the covenant God is weaving for your life. It’s a beautiful way to start your marriage with peace and purpose.

A first look at the alter before your ceremony is perfect. God was shining down on this bride and groom!

Final Thoughts 🌿

Friend, your wedding day doesn’t have to be perfect to be absolutely perfect for you. You deserve to actually live your wedding day - fully, joyfully, without worry - and to trust that your memories will be captured with heart and care 📸.

If you’re still searching for a photographer who will walk alongside you with creativity, faith, and genuine love for your story, I would be so honored to hear from you. You can learn more at Angie Scott Photography. I would love to help you capture all the beauty your heart already sees ✨.

About the Author

Angie Scott is a wedding photographer based in Orlando, Florida 🌴, serving joyful, faith-rooted couples with heartfelt photography that captures the real moments that matter most. Learn more about her work at Angie Scott Photography.